lets procreate

ok so here's the story - tuesday, dinner. soul garden. this girl sat in front of me (ish). she reminded me of someone really special and dear to me. look the same, height the same, same voice, same laughter, same dress sense. only different name, age and place of residence (which she gave verbally so it may not be true but whatever i believe her). i spent 3 hours face to face with her. eating. in that amount of time, memories flooded in. yeah it sucked.

but it made me think. about relationships, dating, marriage. etc.

i've been in discussions about the topic before. never really been interested in knowing what people had to say. maybe i should start. haha.

i had the idea that the 'ideal' partner would have to be

christian
shorter than me
younger than me
well educated
good family background
able to cook/clean/take care of kids

but this girl that i was reminded of, here's the thing. she was none of the above. not even one. and yet, i can say i've never felt more loved by any other girl in my life. the story is not important. you wanna know, ask me.

the point is - you can have all the criterion you want and still your heart can get attracted by an 'outsider'. its funny but its true. so there's really no point in discussing anything. for me, anyways. you can sit down all day talking about ingredients of a good relationship and end up in the future with the person who had totally different views from you in the very same discussion. so for me, i'll pick any girl and when it is time, we'll get married.

now marriage. i'm a very traditional person. i believe God meant marriage to be between a man and a woman so they can procreate. yes, make babies.

but some will say "but we can procreate without getting married wud."

are you a cat? a dog? maybe you super fit, you're a rabbit. no you're not. you're a human being. one human female to one human male. thats how its meant to be. and marriage is to symbolize that this particular couple are for each other and each other only. think of it as birth control.

"but we have condoms"

condoms are meant to prevent STDs. maybe i'm the only one who thinks like this but take it this way - STDs exist as a warning to those who want to have multiple sex partners. its not the bad guy. but man had so much desire for sex that we had to invent condoms. so now the STDs' man function is to spoil man's fun. now thats just stupid. we've managed to turn a helpful thing into a party pooper.

"but.. but.. b..b."

but your head. a real man knows how to control himself. that means his actions, emotions and hormones. so save it.